Worth The Wait

Why it will be worth the wait?

“True love waits” ..definitely some cliché line everyone’s heard of. Maybe from some tv show, movie, song or maybe another blog, but the truth is waiting is easier said than done. The truth is, waiting sort of sucks. It sucks because it has no guarantee. It has no deadline, and most of time we do not even know what we are waiting for. Will it be the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow or perhaps another wrong turn? But despite the downside of waiting, I still strongly believe that “it” will be worth the wait.

It will be worth the wait because the real one will be easy. It will be easy because things will fall into place, things will feel right. Not perfect, but easy. It will be easy because every other wrong turn will make sense, and they will make sense because the right turn will show you why. It will not be a guessing game, but more of an easy game of hide and seek because when you find the one, the game will be over.

It will be worth the wait because it will be more than enough. You will feel more than enough, because somewhere out there someone will consider you to be enough.  No need for adjustments, no need for alterations, because like Cinderella’s shoe, you two will fit together perfectly. You will be enough because you need not explain everything, sometimes you just understand. You will be enough because the person will not ask you to change, rather you would help each other improve, but not change. It will be worth the wait because the mere thought of sitting beside each other, with no words uttered will be satisfying already, because whatever you have may not be explained, but it will be worthy.

It will be worth the wait because it is not something halfway there. It will not be an alternate route you chose to take just cause the other routes did not work. It will be the route you chose to take because it felt right, and not for the mean time but for the long run. It will not be an option, because it will be the choice. No confusions, no maybe’s, no “this could work for now, no pressure”…it will be worth the wait because it will be direct to the point, straight to heart…cheesy but true.

It will be worth the wait because eventually you will feel the like the waiting was indeed worth it. You will feel like you never even waited at all, because somehow, somewhere the timing worked out, sparks flew, and you found a match. It will be worth the wait because fear still exists, but a bigger reason does. The bigger reason that will allow you to let go of all your inhibitions, because this time, there may be no guarantees still…but you will know it. You’ll just know it because despite the doubts, you chose to make a decision, and this time it is not a “maybe”.

Truth is, waiting sucks. Waiting sucks because no one knows how long does a person have to wait…and the truth is, who am I to know why it will be worth the wait, cause like everyone else, I am still waiting. But somehow, somewhere I know the stars will eventually align and when I find the real deal.. I will eventually say that the waiting was indeed worth it!